My boyfriend and I just moved into our first home together so it'll be our first Christmas together in our own house with our daughter. I'm so excited to buy my first tree, buy decorations and start new traditions for my little family!
I'm not entirely sure as to what I'm going to wear yet but I got my little girl a beautiful dress in Pumpkin Patch, I can't wait to put it on her
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You're very thoughtful Angie...
Awwww jnkgossip Hope it's better this year.....
Dolly, children are not our toys to dress...it's like people who dress their animals for their own pleasure...and why would you have a child with someone you only call your boyfriend? Think about the CHILD before you have a child, not just about yourself...
Awwww jnkgossip Hope it's better this year.....
Dolly, children are not our toys to dress...it's like people who dress their animals for their own pleasure...and why would you have a child with someone you only call your boyfriend? Think about the CHILD before you have a child, not just about yourself...
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Funlife suspiciously reminds me of Catsmile.
I hope Carniece hasn't fucked around with you yet?
I hope Carniece hasn't fucked around with you yet?
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Who are you to question who I have a child with? None of your business! And how dare you suggest I dress my child up like an animal, all I said was that I had bought her a pretty new dress to wear, so don't dare question my parenting skills or suggest I'm selfish. You know nothing about me at all.Funlife wrote:You're very thoughtful Angie...
Awwww jnkgossip Hope it's better this year.....
Dolly, children are not our toys to dress...it's like people who dress their animals for their own pleasure...and why would you have a child with someone you only call your boyfriend? Think about the CHILD before you have a child, not just about yourself...
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Well everyone in my family hates eachother, and always remain neutral so I guess Ill be making the trips to every family member again this year instead of us all coming together. Yayyy..
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kaylie27 wrote:Well everyone in my family hates eachother, and always remain neutral so I guess Ill be making the trips to every family member again this year instead of us all coming together. Yayyy..
I know the feeling. It's not that my family doesn't get along, but the hub's. So we have to split our Christmas into my family and then like 4 different trips for his. It is seriously exhausting. Especially since we're the ones who who have to drive for it.
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Thank you funlife!Funlife wrote:You're very thoughtful Angie...
Awwww jnkgossip Hope it's better this year.....
Dolly, children are not our toys to dress...it's like people who dress their animals for their own pleasure...and why would you have a child with someone you only call your boyfriend? Think about the CHILD before you have a child, not just about yourself...
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Um but what mother doesn't like to dress up their little girl? God forbid she put a dress on her daughter for a holiday, oh no. It's not the same as dressing up an animal since her daughter actually needs clothes to wear. And why does it matter if she had a child with her boyfriend as long as it's taken care of and loved?Funlife wrote:You're very thoughtful Angie...
Awwww jnkgossip Hope it's better this year.....
Dolly, children are not our toys to dress...it's like people who dress their animals for their own pleasure...and why would you have a child with someone you only call your boyfriend? Think about the CHILD before you have a child, not just about yourself...
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I'm hoping that this years Christmas plans are the same as last year.
On Christmas day: we get up early, wait for Mum to finish working, then our grandparents turn up, and we sit down and eat a Christmas meal together. Then we open presents and watch some Christmas tv together. Then we'll have a salad and some desserts.
On Boxing Day: we all go round my grandparents with the addition of my boyfriend and my sisters boyfriend. We have a Christmas meal and have some ice cream. Then we open some presents from my aunt and uncle and watch their daughter open presents. Then we'll play party games or watch Christmas tv. Then we'll have a salad for tea and then go home.
On Christmas day: we get up early, wait for Mum to finish working, then our grandparents turn up, and we sit down and eat a Christmas meal together. Then we open presents and watch some Christmas tv together. Then we'll have a salad and some desserts.
On Boxing Day: we all go round my grandparents with the addition of my boyfriend and my sisters boyfriend. We have a Christmas meal and have some ice cream. Then we open some presents from my aunt and uncle and watch their daughter open presents. Then we'll play party games or watch Christmas tv. Then we'll have a salad for tea and then go home.
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Kaylie sorry to hear your family hates each other :'(
Guest relax and don't be a drama queen! Can't you just celebrate with one group of people then and then another next year????
McNewbie, all that talk of ice cream, you're going to get fat....don't lose yourself just because it's Christmas....don't want to end up looking like Rob Kardashian...
Guest relax and don't be a drama queen! Can't you just celebrate with one group of people then and then another next year????
McNewbie, all that talk of ice cream, you're going to get fat....don't lose yourself just because it's Christmas....don't want to end up looking like Rob Kardashian...
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^Lol wow eating ice cream once will not make you fat. Same as eating salad once wont make you slim.
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I used to like Christmas when i was little but now i became and "adutl" i'm more and more angsty about this holidays...
I wouldn't say my family members hate each others, but one of my older sister is hated by everyone because she had a BIG arguent with my mum and one my other sister ; to give you an idea, she didn't invited my mother to her wedding, and we barely see her child...
she's somewhat became a pariah ; everyone criticize her telling she's crazy/have psychological issues... I am the only one who kept in touch with her, but it's very difficult because everyone reproach me this, because of the argument she had with my sister... (they would me to choose my side...but i won't, as they're BOTH my sisters)
Personaly, i don't get along with one of my sister, but i'm trying to put up with her when she come home, even if it's difficult because she's been very nasty with me when i was young/a teenager, taking advantage of my lack of self confidence using element of my personal life (like the fact i've never had any boyfriend), to humiliate me and i will never forgive her about (she's so lame she wouldn't even try to apologize, though).
Now i'm an "adult" i understood that i've idealized the idea of "family". During a long time i somewhat "felt guilty" for not having a "normal" family life, but now that i understood 1)we can't change people 2)that having the same blood than some people doesn't allow them to threat you like sh*t 3)having this same blood doesn't force you to stand up for them infinitely... i'm feeling a bit more serene about it.
But when Christmas arrive, all those frustrations come back to my mind and prevent me to enjoy this moment.
I mean Christmas is a family holiday, but i don't get the point of celebrating it if you have shitty family life, with people you don't get along with... I HATE hypocrisy and I'd rather stay in my bed and earn money~
Sorry for the long post
I wonder if there another people feeling angsty with Christmas coming.....
I wouldn't say my family members hate each others, but one of my older sister is hated by everyone because she had a BIG arguent with my mum and one my other sister ; to give you an idea, she didn't invited my mother to her wedding, and we barely see her child...
she's somewhat became a pariah ; everyone criticize her telling she's crazy/have psychological issues... I am the only one who kept in touch with her, but it's very difficult because everyone reproach me this, because of the argument she had with my sister... (they would me to choose my side...but i won't, as they're BOTH my sisters)
Personaly, i don't get along with one of my sister, but i'm trying to put up with her when she come home, even if it's difficult because she's been very nasty with me when i was young/a teenager, taking advantage of my lack of self confidence using element of my personal life (like the fact i've never had any boyfriend), to humiliate me and i will never forgive her about (she's so lame she wouldn't even try to apologize, though).
Now i'm an "adult" i understood that i've idealized the idea of "family". During a long time i somewhat "felt guilty" for not having a "normal" family life, but now that i understood 1)we can't change people 2)that having the same blood than some people doesn't allow them to threat you like sh*t 3)having this same blood doesn't force you to stand up for them infinitely... i'm feeling a bit more serene about it.
But when Christmas arrive, all those frustrations come back to my mind and prevent me to enjoy this moment.
I mean Christmas is a family holiday, but i don't get the point of celebrating it if you have shitty family life, with people you don't get along with... I HATE hypocrisy and I'd rather stay in my bed and earn money~
Sorry for the long post
I wonder if there another people feeling angsty with Christmas coming.....
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Funlife wrote:Kaylie sorry to hear your family hates each other :'(
Guest relax and don't be a drama queen! Can't you just celebrate with one group of people then and then another next year????
McNewbie, all that talk of ice cream, you're going to get fat....don't lose yourself just because it's Christmas....don't want to end up looking like Rob Kardashian...
On one paragraph you are asking people to stop being a drama queen, then the next paragraph you are overacted on how McNewbie casually mentioned about getting ice cream. "all that talk of ice cream" you sounded like she is planning to eat few tons of ice cream and stuff herself to death, lol I can't even.
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I swear i dont get this person.NotAZombie wrote:Funlife wrote:Kaylie sorry to hear your family hates each other :'(
Guest relax and don't be a drama queen! Can't you just celebrate with one group of people then and then another next year????
McNewbie, all that talk of ice cream, you're going to get fat....don't lose yourself just because it's Christmas....don't want to end up looking like Rob Kardashian...
On one paragraph you are asking people to stop being a drama queen, then the next paragraph you are overacted on how McNewbie casually mentioned about getting ice cream. "all that talk of ice cream" you sounded like she is planning to eat few tons of ice cream and stuff herself to death, lol I can't even.
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Hasuko, I'm really, really sorry to hear about that. It really sucks that your older sister had an argument and now you are in the middle of the drama and your family is asking you to choose sides, when it's YOU who's being mature and recognising that she is family and you don't want to cut off ties with her.
It's really mature of you to put up with your sister, and my heart goes out to you. It's ridiculous of her for being nasty; to you in your formative years and humiliating you with sensitive topics and not even feeling guilty. I completely understand that you can't forgive her, that's really not right. I agree with everything that you are saying and are feeilng more serene about it all.
It's completely understandable that during the holiday season it upsets you that your family is suffering from discord and tension. I'm really sorry, a million hugs go out to you. If you ever need someone to talk to or just a pen pal or whatever, feel very free to e-mail me at [email protected]. I truly hope that you find some small things to make you feel happy this Xmas season even though of course it can't make up for the fact that your family doesn't get along - drinking some seasonal drinks from Starbucks, treating yourself to something, listening to Christmas music.
Concerned, your new friend,
Funlife
It's really mature of you to put up with your sister, and my heart goes out to you. It's ridiculous of her for being nasty; to you in your formative years and humiliating you with sensitive topics and not even feeling guilty. I completely understand that you can't forgive her, that's really not right. I agree with everything that you are saying and are feeilng more serene about it all.
It's completely understandable that during the holiday season it upsets you that your family is suffering from discord and tension. I'm really sorry, a million hugs go out to you. If you ever need someone to talk to or just a pen pal or whatever, feel very free to e-mail me at [email protected]. I truly hope that you find some small things to make you feel happy this Xmas season even though of course it can't make up for the fact that your family doesn't get along - drinking some seasonal drinks from Starbucks, treating yourself to something, listening to Christmas music.
Concerned, your new friend,
Funlife
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Whatever youre taking, please stop.Funlife wrote:Hasuko, I'm really, really sorry to hear about that. It really sucks that your older sister had an argument and now you are in the middle of the drama and your family is asking you to choose sides, when it's YOU who's being mature and recognising that she is family and you don't want to cut off ties with her.
It's really mature of you to put up with your sister, and my heart goes out to you. It's ridiculous of her for being nasty; to you in your formative years and humiliating you with sensitive topics and not even feeling guilty. I completely understand that you can't forgive her, that's really not right. I agree with everything that you are saying and are feeilng more serene about it all.
It's completely understandable that during the holiday season it upsets you that your family is suffering from discord and tension. I'm really sorry, a million hugs go out to you. If you ever need someone to talk to or just a pen pal or whatever, feel very free to e-mail me at [email protected]. I truly hope that you find some small things to make you feel happy this Xmas season even though of course it can't make up for the fact that your family doesn't get along - drinking some seasonal drinks from Starbucks, treating yourself to something, listening to Christmas music.
Concerned, your new friend,
Funlife
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I'm extremely positive funlife is catsmile.
http://gurugossiper.com/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=8240
especially this post:
http://gurugossiper.com/viewtopic.php?f ... 75#p525249
http://gurugossiper.com/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=8240
especially this post:
http://gurugossiper.com/viewtopic.php?f ... 75#p525249
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Omg i actually assumed it was her, didnt even know it was two different usernames. Lol
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It is catsmile. Her email is the same as catsmile's blog. Pretty irritating considering she was banned, but I guess she's set on coming back. Just try not to feed the troll is my only advice. Especially not with ice cream.
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