harperlane11 wrote:They don't want to be inconvenienced with the adjustment period the girls (mostly Keira) would have to go through. Not taking the girls on trips has nothing to do with not wanting to disturb their routines, etc. it has everything to do with them wanting to be away and not have to listen to Keira scream or throw up. Just my opinion.
spot on! last time they went to tokyo, all 3 girls got food poisoning and it was judy and whatever nanny they brought with them that mostly comforted the poor girls. the next morning, benji complained and said something like the neighbors must be annoyed by the barfing and crying noises. seriously sociopathic! he feels embarrassed when the girls cry in public, his first instinct is to ignore them or mock them and not to comfort them. he has no fatherly instincts, it's why i don't feel sorry for him when the girls cry for judy. i'm also of the belief that keira is anxious around benji, and probably miyako too re: her nail-biting habit. when julianna wasn't even a year old he'd glare at her with such anger to stop her from crying so he can talk about his stupid groceries to the vlogs!
i just don't care at all for benji. he talks about working hard to support his family, but he doesn't do shit. he barely acknowledges his kids, uses his wife for money and sex, is jealous of his brother and his sister in law, insults his parents and always avoids judy's family. he doesn't work, he piggy-backs off of his wife's and kids' popularity.
the only things he's good at is making 30 minute coffees and avoiding his kids.
