Kalel - New Break Up, New Break Down (Part 34)

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Jesus f*cking Christ she is a moron.

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"now I realize Im a love addict not just because its my preferred way of socializing but also because its the only thing that makes me feel good and function like a normal person"
ummm, then you should be single so you can learn to find happiness on your own via theyarby you dumb ass, that why people are telling you you should be alone to find yourself :roll:

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KittyGussip wrote:
idontknow wrote:I wish I would have screenshot it. Someone commented saying that she has narcissistic personality disorder with a lot of the symptoms of it and Kalel commented back calling them stupid or something saying that she hates herself and how could that be narcissistic or whatever and I think she deleted the comment. It had like 300 thumbs up the last time I checked.
I DID SAVE IT ! :D
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she said in her long ass video half the population suffers from OCPD but her trustworthy source -wikipedia- says otherwise:
OCPD occurs in about 2–8% of the general population and 8–9% of psychiatric outpatients.The disorder occurs more often in men
its not like all her gibberish are scientific facts but Im too lazy to prove her wrong :roll:
Yes! I'm so glad, thank you! I love that she thinks narcissism is only thinking you're great or something. She's so clueless.


Do we want to stick with the "Kafaileesi - Mother of Apes" as the thread title, or does anyone want to come up with one involving this videos as well? I'm cool with whatever, I just want to know because I know we're going to be needing a new thread very soon.

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youre wellcome <3
I dont know how to pic names but something that has to do with how she think she is the "most intellectual 28 yo she knows" could be a good addition to the title :tu:
or MAYBE something to do with her "narcissism" :rofl:

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she doesnt want to be a vet because she "doesnt like the physical aspect of animal care" ?!
oh dear lord

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and why does she feel bad therapists want her to come back more or that they didnt help her ?
it takes time, you wont "beat OCD" from the first session , it may take months or devoted work from YOU so just take your time just like how you want to take your time with college
and if youre talking about haters reminding you of how many times you quit college and you mean US by that... Im not even mad :roll:

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To me, She's the typical person who says "I don't have a job because I want a managment job, I'm good at that" but then you ask them "Have you made any managment courses? Any other interest in the field besides the "you get to boss people around" part?" And they get mad :rofl:
As I said before, if she thinks she can be like this and she's gonna be praised in college/university, girl is in for a BIG surprise... Her professors are gonna rip her apart... They actually love to have someone like Kalel in their classes, so They can shut them down and prove the other students this is serious business... :rofl:
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AHAHAHA WTF AT THE PRETENTIOUS BLACK SCREEN.

I'm dead. I'm done. This bitch is insane. Actually INSANE.

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One of the comments said
Not trying to be an asshole, but how would you know if you were mentally more self-aware than most people your age, especially since you claim that you have "no friends". Like what are your basing your claim on? Assumptions? I hope this didn't come off rude, I am just genuinely curious how you came to this conclusion.
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I'm basing it off of the fact that I've had far more free time to study and explore myself than most people. Most people are really busy with work and don't get as much mental free time for deep self-exploration. I think I'm painfully hyperaware. I'm really not meaning it in a "holier than thou" way, but take it that way if you wish.
Because people with a normal job or busy lifestyle aren't capable of exploring themselves? Ugh, this girl needs a slap in the face. I don't even want to know what her "deep self-exploration" entails.

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thewhiterabbit wrote:One of the comments said
Not trying to be an asshole, but how would you know if you were mentally more self-aware than most people your age, especially since you claim that you have "no friends". Like what are your basing your claim on? Assumptions? I hope this didn't come off rude, I am just genuinely curious how you came to this conclusion.
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I'm basing it off of the fact that I've had far more free time to study and explore myself than most people. Most people are really busy with work and don't get as much mental free time for deep self-exploration. I think I'm painfully hyperaware. I'm really not meaning it in a "holier than thou" way, but take it that way if you wish.
Because people with a normal job or busy lifestyle aren't capable of exploring themselves? Ugh, this girl needs a slap in the face. I don't even want to know what her "deep self-exploration" entails.

Jesuschrist... is she for real? I work a full-time job and still know very well myself... Mostly because I've given myself the time to know me and identify my querks and particularities... Because I don't want them as an excuse to be a shitty person :rofl: :rofl:

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I've been aware of Kalel for years but only watched a few videos over that time. I don't think she understands the motivation behind people's comments. When people say SHE should be single because clearly she's lurching from one relationship to another (seriously, if my relationship broke down I would in no way magically find a new partner within months, let alone weeks), they're not saying EVERYONE needs to be single. Just her. I'm an INTJ and I've been with my partner for 13 years. I'm married. If you meet the right person who is truly what you need, they don't count as someone who it's draining to spend time with. You don't need to be on your own and you don't need to spend 60% of your life sitting alone at your laptop.

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that video was so cringey

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I actually sat through that whole black screen video... she's such a mess. :? I would be so interested to hear what she'd say if she would read the things posted here. :rofl: :rofl: Also loving how many of you are screencapping the comments before she deletes them, this is hilarious. :rofl: :tu:

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narcissists hate themselves more than anything...that's why they need constant attention/validation/sense of superiority to distract themselves and fill the void

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lololol dafuk did I watch?

1. Did this bitch just say her voice was soothing to others? She sounds so whiney you guiiiiiiseee!

2. Did she really say she learned selflessness from her relationships? She sounds like the most selfish self absorbed person ever. Selfless people don't brag about being selfless, they just are tbh.

3. Claiming to be more self aware than average 28 yr olds? Most people at 28 have their life together, you don't Fale-el. But oh my you are so self aware of this.

Once again, her SSD (speshullll snowflake syndrome as a gossiper posted earlier) is really showing. She's part of the 1% female population that's INTJ! No sweetie, you are a basic bland bitch with two nose jobs. :rofl:

Did she just really say that this video took over 30 hours and 10 pages? Wow, how hard that must have been on you Kalel. That's almost the hours of a full time job Kalel! You're so hardworking.

And we all know that this anti-monogamy/pro-polyamory thing is another one of her personalites right? All her past relationships have failed so now she's claiming monogamy isn't for her. She's constantly making excuses for herself.

And I bet that her strained relationship w/ her family is b/c of her. She is a manipulative toxic person and I bet even her parents resent her. Idk how any guy will stay with her once they see her true colors. Cyrus prob only watched GOT with her cause he feels bad for her cause she's that pathetic.

Her claiming that she hates ppl/finds them boring is hilarious. She's acting if people would WANT to be friends with someone like her. And she claims she's not trying to be superior :roll: I'm honestly surprised that she's not friends with the vapid LA bitches. She can find common ground with them and discuss their nose jobs, their tits, and how great vegan food in LA is guiseeeee!!!

Kalel is extremely insecure, yet tries to act if she isn't. Her constant need of a romantic relationships is indication of that. Her nose jobs are an indication of that too, but she tries to project the image of a hot LA bitch. Yeah, no.

Her act is getting old. It'll be no time before another boyfriend victim is introduced and she'll mold her personality and look to fit him. But no guiiiise, she wants to date multiple people at once because monogamy isn't for her :rofl: Kalel would never survive in an open relationship, we all know she couldn't handle Cyrus' female friends.

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She needs friends. She really really really need friends. She needs to talk to another humain being, and she need to be told she's delusional and just spewing bullshit.

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leyla12345 wrote:narcissists hate themselves more than anything...that's why they need constant attention/validation/sense of superiority to distract themselves and fill the void
Yet she claims that she hates attention.
EL-OH-EL.
She is the definition of a spoiled entitled brat.

She's also acting as if she's this smart intellectual bitch going back to college. I pray she fails.

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fail_dawson wrote:She needs friends. She really really really need friends. She needs to talk to another humain being, and she need to be told she's delusional and just spewing bullshit.
What kind of friends could she attract though?
The only people I see her hanging out with are instagram hoes, people that are as vapid and narcissistic as her.
No one would deal with her holier-than-thou attitude.
Kalel has so much like she says (material wise), but she is such a sad sad person. How pathetic.

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So that took forever to listen to and transcribe some parts. For those who don't want to listen to the whole thing, I transcribed some parts, summarized a few, and included time-stamps for most of the topics she addresses. I put some of them under spoilers cuz they're such large walls of text. Just click on what you want to read. Enjoy!

0:30 Why she decided to create audio instead of a video:
"I'm literally terrified right now to be talking about this, but...I really want to. I really don't know actually what is compelling me so much to do this, but I really want to get this out there ... and I know that if I try to film some candid-ass video, I'm gonna get it all wrong, guys."

1:41-6:10 She talks about the argument people have made that she needs to be single and why she disagrees with that logic:
"So, if there was one take away that I got from my comments on my #single life video, it was that people seem to think that 1. they know a lot about me and that 2. I NEED to be single in order to find myself. Basically insinuating, and even kind of like shaming me, that since I've been in 4 back-to-back committed relationships over the past 10 years, that I haven't been able to find myself. Personally, I think this is just a program response. It's something we've heard many people advise others so we repeat it back when the appropriate opportunity presents itself. We actually do this with a whole lot of shit. We're basically all programmed robots and the average person really doesn't have critical independent thought on their day to day. Basically, I'm trying to say -- none of our thoughts are original. Really, we're just parrots. But anyway, let's go ahead and dissect this claim and see if we can follow the logic in my personal situation ... What's the timing on this? This is my biggest problem with this. What's the timing on this? People evolve and change every single year of their lives. Ask someone who's 30 how much they've hanged from twenty to thirty and they will probably laugh and tell you that they're a completely different person. So, they how often do we need to be single to find ourselves? Are married people incapable of finding themselves? Or is it just people that go in and out of relationships that need to be alone to find themselves? Are you starting to see how this logic is flawed? I feel as if this advice that I was getting was likely coming from people who had quite a bit of experience with being single, so naturally they seem to think that that was the superior way to achieve growth. But just for fun, let's observe the other side of the coin. because what if some people are capable of finding themselves on a greater level from being in a relationship? I just want to insert a little side note here. As humans, we tend to force ourselves in this little box of what society considers to be normal. But just because one path is traveled more often, does not mean that the other paths are abnormal or wrong. It is definitely possible that all the paths lead to the same place. It's just that different people prefer to grow in different ways. I don't know why that's so uncomfortable for some people. I guess as humans we just like to put everyone in a damn box. But it's just not reality, guys. As someone with a lot of relationship experience, I can tell you guys that nothing has helped me grow more than my relationships. They've just given me this absolutely insane insight into myself. My mind. My desires. My needs. While at the same time helping me master some of life's most valuable tools. Proper communication. The art of selflessness. Gaining broader perspective. And lots, and I mean lots, of self-assessment paired with reflection and improvement. So, you see, I could easily turn the table and say that YOU need to be in more relationships to find yourself or to reach your maximum potential. But really, it's all about personal perspective. There is not right or wrong. So, I think the ultimate question here is have I found myself? The funny thing is that I actually think I'm sore self-aware than the average 28-year-old. My relaxed career has given me so much free time that I've had access to a level of like mental freedom and self-discovery that many have not been able to experience. At least not at my age. And this has given me the ability to not only deeply study myself and my interests, and my passions, and what works and what doesn't work...but also just in general, to study the many facets of life. So I don't really know what more I could ask for in the department of self-discovery, at least not for now."
6:50 She says that she's independent and doesn't like when boyfriends buy her stuff:
"I'm constantly studying working on projects--mostly that fail, exploring opportunities. Basically, what I'm trying to say is I'm not a needy bitch. If anything, my boyfriends tend to get frustrated because I often put my own endeavors and personal projects over spending time with them.... [7:44] I do not allow my boyfriends to buy me things, and that has NEVER been an element in ANY of my relationships. I have always been a 100% self-sufficient person. Yes, even back when I was with a certain SOMEONE, which I'll never understand why people called me a gold-digger back then. Honestly, did I have any of the signs of being a gold digger? Was I carrying a Chanel bag or walking around in Louboutins or driving a Mercedes? No! I was wearing a Pikachu t-shirts, flip flops, and driving a Fiat."
9:19 She describes her own ratio of how much time she puts into different types of relationships in her life (family, friendships, romantic partners):
"As humans, we all need to feel a sense of social connection with others in order to be happy. This can come in a mix of three forms. Family, friends, and romantic partners. My personal mix has been about 5, 15, and 80. 5[%] on family, 15[%] on friends, and 80[%] on romantic partners. Which, yes, may not be the most common mix, which is why I think people reacted so adversely to my video. But let me go in and go a little bit deeper and explain my reasoning. ... So, my family lives 2,000 miles away. I really don't see much of them. Phone call here and there. Some text messages, but we're just not that close. I love them deeply but we have such different views on life that I often struggle to connect with them. ... So, I'm gonna be really, really, really, blunt on this one... ... This is gonna make me sound like a really big bitch. I honestly don't like most people. And this is not coming from a place of superiority because really, I don't like myself either. Like I literally hate myself. But whenever I'm talking to about 90% of people, I literally feel bored. Is that mean? I don't know. I really just can't help it. I feel like I can stimulate myself much better than they can. Ultimately, I'm standing there thinking about how much I would rather be at home, reading, working on projects, watching a documentary, just something that challenges me over making me feel mentally stagnant."
12:25 Stops to quickly talk about the Myers-Briggs test:
"If you're familiar with the Myers-Brigg personality indicator, I actually have a very rare personality type. This isn't me bragging because I wish that this was not my personality type, to be honest with you. My type is INTJ, which less than 1% of the female population in the entire world has. I truly think this has a lot to do with my social issues. I think it's why I don't vibe with a lot of people and why specifically why I struggle so greatly to connect with other women."

13:23 Talks about how she loves being in love and then opens up about her mental illness and how she has realized that there is a connection and pattern between the two:
"So, I don't really see my family. I struggle to connect with friends. What's left to fill my social quota. 80% on romantic relationships. ... I just love falling in love and love being in love. I'm a quality over quantity person. I love pouring myself unto one person and getting to know them on a deep, deep, deep level. And there's really nothing that anyone can say to me that's going to make me feel ashamed about doing what makes me feel my happiest. However, on that note I actually think there’s an even deeper reason as to why I gravitate towards romantic partners in my subconscious. ... There's something that makes it difficult for me to have strong relationships with anyone, and this is the scary part of the video for me. This is something that...I don't know if it's smart to share. Probably not ... even though this is going to fuck me in a lot of ways, I'm going to share because I think it'll help you guys understand me A LOT more. I honestly don't like talking about this anymore, but since it really pertains to understanding me, I kind of have to bring it up. So, if you've been following me for a while, you will know that I have struggled with obsessive-compulsive tendencies and that a few years back I finally went to a therapist and I got diagnosed with OCD, and then shortly after that we actually figured out that I didn't have OCD, that I had OCPD, which is obsessive compulsive personality disorder." (Goes on to define OCPD, her personal experience, and how her father suffers from OCPD too) She thinks that the reason she's in romantic relationships is because they're basically an alternative to going on antidepressants for her OCPD. It's a more natural way of making her feel happy so that she doesn't have to pop pills. Love is her drug. But then she falls of that high and she struggles to hold on to the relationship because she returns to her old self. She is a love addicts because it's the only thing to make her feel good. But she genuinely cares about her partners, it's just that she understands how this works for her mental health at the same time.
29:26 She talks about wanting to be in more open relationships than in one committed relationships:
"So, what's the solution? I still want to have romantic relationships, just not committed ones. I want to have deep relationships with people, just not too deep to the point where I'm around them so much that their imperfections drive me insane. And honestly, I don't want to limit myself to just one person anymore. I realize that most people may think that's awful and abnormal and I want to keep everyone at arm's length is weird. But I'm not normal. And I think it's just what will work for me. I no longer feel the need to tie myself down to one person because I know that it will likely not work out and that I know if I get too deep with this one person I will likely end up hurting them. I feel like I have hurt all of my ex-boyfriends and that causes me so much pain because I love them. I love them still to this day. And I feel like they all hate me. Except Cyrus, he doesn't hate me. He was literally just here the other night watching Game of Thrones. We're still friends. But generally speaking, they don't understand and they hate me. I feel like Cyrus understands a little bit more because I am a lot more aware of my problems now than I was with my other boyfriends. So, he understands me." [31:11] "So basically I'm going to make it clear to people that I'm not looking for anything serious but if we have a connection we can certainly become close and enjoy another's company. And this excites me. I think opening myself up to the option of casually connecting with multiple people over locking it down with just one will really enrich my life and broaden my perspective. I think it will probably be enough excitement to keep a steady flow of my natural dose of Zoloft [love]." *Laughs*
30:41 Talks about her struggles with friendships, education, YouTube and social media:
"As for friendships, I definitely regret not spending a bit more of my energy on them, as they're likely a better investment of my time. I fully realize they definitely have better odds of lasting longer... I'm really looking for my ratio to be more like 10, 50, 40. The struggle is how do I meet those friends? I suppose I need to push myself to get out there more... … …but similar to my philosophy on keeping romantic partners at an arm's length, I will likely have to do the same with friends. I'm just terrified of reaching the point with people where I become darkness for them. I really only want to engage in friendship if I can enrich people's lives. Since I struggle with both romantic relationships and friendships, I want to focus my time on my education. But that is yet something else that my OCPD fucks with. I set such high standards for myself that it gets in the way of any real productivity. I just keep trying to improve...and re-doing thing over and over...and I circle back so many times that it's only 85% complete at best. (Goes on about her perfection issues) ...this is why this time around I am really easing myself into college by starting off only taking one class and then gradually adding more and seeing how I feel." (She talks about how this also affects her videos, photos, and why she deletes them all.) She says she can't really "let it go" and has tried cognitive behavioral therapy. She has considered suicide multiple times because she's tired of feeling like a slave to her mental illness.
36:37 Talks about her career and her struggle with it. Talks about what she wants to do and study.

39:55 She wants to go back to therapy but wants to find someone who specializes in OCPD.

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I haven't watched Kalel from the very beginning of QB like a lot of you here, so I have a question for anyone that has been following her since the beginning. Did she routinely delete videos from her QB channel back before she started dating Anthony, or did the video and channel deletions start happening mostly after the time she began her relationship with Anthony?

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