yungchi wrote: ↑Thu Apr 30, 2020 2:54 am
oshaughnessykipp wrote:1.) according to her video, Rosie was placed on her chest immediately after giving birth. so acting like she didn't see or hold her at all is a fucking lie
2.) of course they're going to take a 3lb newborn with brain and heart abnormalities for testing. would she rather they hadn't?!
what's so "traumatic" for her is that she's still in denial about her baby's medical conditions, it's not the doctor or the hospital's fault. she can't shit on them for doing their job and trying their best to help Rosie thrive. she's such an ungrateful bitch.
Wow... how narcissistic must you be to not realise this? The doctors probably saved Rosie’s life and all Acacia can think about is herself. Would she rather have kept a 3lb baby who was probably struggling to breath in her arms for hours?
She’s had almost 2 years to reflect on Rosie’s birth and she’s still on her ‘first breath’ reaction of “I can’t believe those horrible doctors did that to me, I hate hospitals”.
" The "daddy stitch" is the biggest fallacy out there. I say this because you can’t put in a daddy stitch without a defined area that’s going to be linear down the vagina in a midline in order to tighten the vagina. So, just on that basis, nobody gets an extra stitch just to make you tighter. Second of all, you would never do a vaginal tightening procedure during delivery because the patient has been in labor for so long. They’ve been pushing, they’re really swollen, and their tissue is swollen. Everything is really unorganized and discordant, so it’s definitely not any time to do any cosmetics or plastic reconstruction. Besides that, there’s a lot of blood involved during delivery and it’s very hard to see. You have to work pretty fast because you’re repairing the tears, delivering the placenta, etc.
You would need way more than one stitch in order to do an effective job in repairing pelvic floor muscles and making somebody tight, so I think the "father stitch" started as a fun, "Hey dad, do you want me to put an extra stitch" sort of joke, and over the years it has kind of taken on a life of its own. I do not know anyone who has performed a "daddy stitch."
But, don't get me wrong, if someone didn't do a proper job of fixing or repairing what tore, it could cause painful intercourse afterwards. But it's not that they intentionally made it too tight, I think it's more erroneous on the part of the repair itself as opposed to it being a "daddy stitch." "
I found a lot of articles essentially saying the same thing. I also gave birth recently and knew about it as the honeymoon stitch but literally all my doctors said it was an outdated myth. I feel like Acacia does bare minimum research then acts like she knows everything about the topic. I don't think Acacia realized Rosie had to be taken away to make sure her stats were okay given that it was not a 'normal textbook' birth it was for Rosie's own good and Acacia did get skin to skin with Rosie.