Mrs Midwest - Mrs Perfect

[alexsimons1965]

I find weird fhat Cynthia and Caithlin are not following each other. I mean...they are both canadian, they both stand for the same, they both are saying how their channel is space for feminine family and women who love homemaking to support each other etc. And they don't follow each other? That is simply weird and say something about their personalities not being as sweet and supportive as they say?

I noticed MM only follows and promotes people who are not as pretty or making femininity videos.

[Jordy]

It’s possible that they don’t follow each other to try and avoid copying accusations? It kind of seems like a lose-lose situation: don’t follow each other and you’re unsupportive, follow each other and you obviously didn’t come up with your video ideas yourself....

I’ve found that I really enjoy the blogging and some of her talking videos, but I get bored watching her more conceptual videos. I know this is kind of a place to bag on her, but I really do like some pieces of her content

[imuffin13]

In her new video when she was talking about Cinderella having strained relationships with her step mother and siblings I couldn't help but think maybe thats her favorite disney princess because Caitlin also has a strained relationship with her mother...? I'm not sure, I know it's personal for her but it would be interesting if she opened up about it on her channel one day

[cupcake-bby]

She already made a fake af video about her mother saying she influenced her femininity and painted her out to be this perfect mom. A lot of her comments mentioned they wished they had a mom like that bc they were never taught those things or are looked down upon for being feminine. She obviously made that video to brag and create this fairytale life for herself from jump as part of her youtube persona just like her perfect, loving husband and her perfect homemaking skills.

[littleriver]

Firstly, Cynthia L. coming on here to defend herself was pathetic to say the least. And I agree with the above comments about how Caitlin blatantly lied about her relationship with her mother. I don’t get it, all she had to do was be authentic and real, and she’d get so much more respect. Also her relationship with her husband seems that they aren’t together out of love, but convenience. He wants a bimbo trophy wife, and she wants to never lift a finger. She also seems like she doesn’t even truly want kids. She said in one of her recent videos about how she isn’t a baby person and gets stressed that she may not do well with one, but decided she’s going to force herself in the name of tradition? She’s truly what’s wrong with the world and why so many girls are so insecure. An average little girl watches her in admiration but doesn’t know it’s all a facade.

[Guest]

Please Caitlin DRESS ELEGANTLY AND FEMININE for sake of your bragging about it. She worn baggy cargo pants again! ... nothing weong with cargo pants they are super comfy and functional but she makes money out of talking about importance of dressing in elegant and traditional way! Which traditional elegant lady will wear cargo pants and show it off as elegant outfit?!

I also find not having desire towards babies and becoming a mother pretty pathetic. She would better be off lying. Especially from point of view of religious person, conception, birth and witnessing baby grow etc is biggest miracle. And is ,not her thing,? As traditional feminine religious lady? I don't believe anymore she even likes feminity or traditions. At this point I find her just someone who is lazy (aka being housewife and cooking batches to freeze for later while not working-not having any other responsibilities+not doing volunteering + not having kids) and don't want to work + want attention. So she chose traditional feminine housewife thing just as excuse to be lazy + brag about it online to gain attention. I am truly disgusted and heart broken almost. When she started her channel i thought she will be this elegant housewife who is hard workin(daily cooking, gardening, volunteering in community), can't wait to have children that she will homeschool, all while looking put together, working out etc..... she even said working out is not her thing. She is so lazy is not normal.

[Guest]

Just want to clarify my statement ,,I also find not having desire towards babies and becoming a mother pretty pathetic,,

I don't mean this in general, but towards her directly. I have dear friends who decided they don't want children and I believe is best decision for them and their families. But Caitlin is bragging about traditional role of woman that STAYS AT HOME. Which is taking care of husband and children. Plus her always talking about traditional life that God wanted for women, Bible etc. So for her to say that babies are not her thing sound pathetic to me.

[junebug93]

Can anyone tell me in what video she mentioned that she isnt really a baby person?

[cheesecake134]

I've actually been thinking for a while that Cait is a big ol' geek with quirky interests who has effectively trapped her own self in this tradtional prison. She loves fantasy books, particularly LOTR. She also gravitates towards goofy home decor(all those toadstools and tea pots shaped like houses). I think she clearly prefers a more androdgynous/funky look when it comes to her personal style. And in general she seems like someone who is eager to explore and learn about the world around her. I just think the red pill community and she herself have painted her into a corner because of her looks. Men aren't interested in "nerds" so you better shut up about fantasy books and buying toadstool teapots, put on a dress, and be the pretty blonde housewife we want you to be!

I think had she married a man who actually loved her geekiness and actively supported her interests she would be an entirely different person.

[cupcake-bby]

Her style is very quirky too...to say the least. Tbh I don't see anything wrong with her having those interests and having a feminine personality/style (albeit it's false). I'd imagine a lot of guys would actually like someone they can geek out with over shows, movies or comics, especially since LOTR, or the Marvel or DC franchise shaped a lot of people's childhood or teenage years. It's obvious she somewhat forces these feminine traits on herself (i've never met an aspiring feminine housewife/sahm claim they don't like babies) and probably does it mainly for the male attention it comes with. Both her and Cynthia L just seem fake and don't at all come off as the nurturing, gentle, soft feminine women they claim to be. Imo a lot of that has to do with one's existing personality, e.g someone who's naturally quiet or reserved is more likely to find it easier to be e.g a listener then someone who has that boss b*tch mentality. For some reason neither of them come off as educated or cultured (and you can be a sahm and read literature) and like they have something in there apart from claiming they "must make meals and clean the house". Like what else do they do?? Their cooking vlogs aren't even impressive, i've seen Cynthia L spend more time making homemade dogfood than cook dinner.

[cheesecake134]

Her style is very quirky too...to say the least. Tbh I don't see anything wrong with her having those interests and having a feminine personality/style (albeit it's false). I'd imagine a lot of guys would actually like someone they can geek out with over shows, movies or comics, especially since LOTR, or the Marvel or DC franchise shaped a lot of people's childhood or teenage years.

Typically yes. But not husbear or this dumbass community she's hitched her wagon to. They specifically want women who look traditional and have traditional girly interests. A geeky girl is useless and unattractive to them. A SMART girl is a total threat. I think Caitlin has suppressed a very real side of herself in a desperate attempt to be attractive to these trolls and that's so damn depressing.

[Guest]

I've actually been thinking for a while that Cait is a big ol' geek with quirky interests who has effectively trapped her own self in this tradtional prison. She loves fantasy books, particularly LOTR. She also gravitates towards goofy home decor(all those toadstools and tea pots shaped like houses). I think she clearly prefers a more androdgynous/funky look when it comes to her personal style. And in general she seems like someone who is eager to explore and learn about the world around her. I just think the red pill community and she herself have painted her into a corner because of her looks. Men aren't interested in "nerds" so you better shut up about fantasy books and buying toadstool teapots, put on a dress, and be the pretty blonde housewife we want you to be!

I think had she married a man who actually loved her geekiness and actively supported her interests she would be an entirely different person.

Wow! Such a great insight! Well, then i am sorry for her because... I am a geek nerd sahm that was housewife before children one thing i enjoyed before children was being able to game many hours a day when husband was at work. I gamed about 6hours a day but still did more house chores that Caithlin seem to do in her vlogs, that's why she irks me when describe her ,housewifing, as some career or difficult job. I am also religious, so these stuff doesn't necessarily go against each other... If she loves fantasy and stuff but try to push this side of her to the corner for the ,traditional wife, role than that is truly sad. My husband is not as big geek as I am. But he love that side about me.

[Kayla_7777]

She contradicts herself all.the.time. I haven't watched any of her new videos because I just can't handle her anymore but I remember in an old one she was talking about how she wanted like a whole bunch of kids (sometimes she thinks she wants 5!) and how women shouldn't be waiting until they're too old to have children, etc. ...........now she's not a baby person? I honestly think she's too lazy and self absorbed to have a baby and it's probably for the better anyway

[leslie-nope]

I don’t think she ever really wanted kids. Wanting to pop out a lot of babies is kind of a must in order to be the tRaDiTiOnAl ReD PiLl DrEaM GiRl she tries so hard to portray herself as. I’m sure that’s why she said it in that video. I’ve never met anyone who is looking forward to having kids but isn’t a “baby person”.She doesn’t strike me as the kind of person who would be good with kids. Kids are really good at sending when someone is being fake so that fake sickly sweet baby voice she uses on her dog and “Disney princess energy” would get her nowhere. Also her husband would be a horrible father holy shit!

[imuffin13]

I know I'm in the minority here but I actually think she'd be a great mom. Everyone seems to think she's super fake but in reality I think she is just trying to survive. Obviously something traumatic happened which caused her to not have a relationship with her family anymore and now she is basically alone, living with her husband. So what if she contradicts herself, she's still in her early 20's and she's allowed to figure herself out. She might be painting herself as this perfect wife, but it's probably because she HAS to be in order to stay with her husband. She definitely would be a whole different person if she had a stable relationship with her family and maybe even married someone more compatible with her. But I think having kids would maybe shift her perspective and she'd grow as a person

[imuffin13]

Another thing that I was thinking of, I feel like Caitlin is on a WHOOOLE different level than her husband. Even without knowing the guy, she's obviously more intelligent. I mean she could get any guy she wanted lets be honest. I just hope it doesn't backfire and he gets intimidated by her or something

[littleriver]

I don’t see Caitlin being a great mom. And I hope I’m wrong because every child deserves a great mother. I only say this because of her intense focus on vanity and pleasing her husband that doesn’t even seem like someone she truly loves. I’ve had some significant trauma in my childhood and I’m married and in my early 20’s. I still know right from wrong and not to deceive people for money on the internet. Frankly, she’s lazy and didn’t seem to ever really grow up. She has a lot of insecurities, as we all do, but pretends like she doesn’t. Motherhood is dirty, tiring, genuine hard work. Her husband will probably make her do all of the work with the baby since it’s her “job”. Even in traditionalism, marriage is a partnership that needs respect. She doesn’t have true love, and she doesn’t have her family since that relationship seems pretty broken. It’s sad because we can’t choose where we come from but we can choose as adults who we become and who we surround ourselves with. She’s made her choices. But she’s a redpill dream girl, so...good for her I guess?

[hater gator]

Tbh it may have more to do w husbear than her. He does not seem down to be a dad at all (dude can’t even muster up an ounce of affection for his own wife when on camera for like two seconds), and it seems they are on a pretty tight budget. I think it’s more his will than hers. I think she is low-energy and dislikes responsibility at the moment, but I do not doubt that if she had married a supportive, rich guy and was more of a “kept woman” she would have no qualms about getting pregnant ASAP. Being a mom aligns with her whole ideology, everyone in her realm of influencer either has kids or speaks frequently about solid future plans to have them. My tinfoil is that he is saying no, and her pointless homemaker busywork is to distract herself from the emptiness she feels from this marriage and these life choices. She often comes off to me like she is trying to convince herself of what she is preaching. I wish she would get a job, she seems intelligent and she’s so young. Her world just seems so very small. She’s alone all day, he barely interacts with her, then leaves for his night shift. If she had a child now, she would practically be a single mother. Just the sheer amount of time this woman spends on Pinterest (seriously she is pinning 24/7) is depressing. I get the worst vibes from husbandbear. No offense to anyone who is married to a cop, but their stats on domestic abuse towards their partners....yikes. I don’t inherently dislike her, but her current way of living is taking her mind, her emotional health, etc absolutely nowhere. Sorry for the rant but I’ve been watching her for a while and needed to say this.


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[cheesecake134]

^Knowing that she follows white nationalist accounts, I am terrified of her toe husband. I absolutely think she picked up those beliefs(and the red pill thing) from him and it's scary that person is in any position of authority AND carrying a weapon. I absolutely think he is a "shoot first, ask questions never" kind of cop.

He is just nothing but red flags to me. I don't know if he physically abuses her, but the extremely dismissive way he interacts with her is shocking and sad for a young married couple. He seems annoyed by her "girl chatter" and clearly doesn't value her as the intelligent, fully realized adult she is simply because she's a woman. In turn, she CLINGS to him and seems desperate for any special time together. She claims they have romantic breakfasts every morning because it's their only real time to connect during the day. But in the clips she's shown of these special breakfasts it's mostly husbear staring at his phone while Caitlin tries to get him to talk to her. I was really struck by that "day in my life" vlog by how little he interacted with her at home. She made apple crisp all by herself while he sat in the recliner on his phone. She even got cozy under a blanket by herself while he presumably sat in the recliner on his phone. You won't even go snuggle with your wife, bro?! They didn't interact until she went with him to the station to pick up an award. She was praising him the entire time and he couldn't even muster a "thanks". Oh God, and I can't forget a week or so ago when she posted a pic praising him for being there while she was sick...................by sitting in the same room as her, chilling with a cup of coffee and playing on his phone again. Seriously FUCK this guy. He is so despicable he has me feeling sympathy for this evil white supremacist bitch.

[cupcake-bby]

Yeah their relationship is weird, they're still so young and obviously haven't been married for long, they should be totally in love and lovey dovey, all that jazz bc it's an exciting new period, especially for a young couple. Her husband is an asshole and a huge red flag that he has a pornography addiction. Caitlin posting on reddit about liking being told off and degraded or whatever bc of his "masculine" nature and being proud that he overcame his addiction with prayer... it's soooo....vulgar and trashy. Who tf wants to know that?? She sure knows how to pick them. She probably has some trauma from her childhood to be saying things like that and enjoy this treatment. That poor excuse of a man would never be able to get close to me, let alone go on a date with me. I wonder if they ever go to work events and the people see how dysfunctional they are. Their relationship is a walking disaster. If she really hated this situation she'd get therapy for whatever issues she has and drop him but she likely thinks she, as a woman, needs a man to survive even if he's walking trash