conflate wrote:
Marissa's been her close friend for years... they used to hang out all the time before Judy had the kids and if I recall correctly, Marissa didn't even leave the hotel with Julianna?
I think there's a pretty big difference between that and letting Julianna go out for the day. The only person they ever do that with is Judy's mom. I'm not registering where the hypocrisy is on this one.
People are always like "sure, I'll take the baby out!" but don't realise how much work it actually is. None of those people are parents or have ever been parents so I get where Judy was coming from here.
Frankly, I don't understand where Judy's coming from. Julianna at most.. would've been out for a few hours with FAMILY: Julian, Amy, Valerie and maybe Melody if Julianna went. All whom seems to handle kids well. She would've enjoyed the zoo! Instead, Judy wants to keep her cooped up at home because of BS reasons (also agree with the user who said Judy probably wants zoo footage of Julianna on itsjudylife).
She doesn't feel bad at all to have her mom, who is sick, take care of Julianna....or invite those two girls who drove to Washington into their house... or have everyone else take care of the girls while she was in Vegas... but on this particular day when Julianna could've gone to the zoo, her motherly instincts kicked in? I don't buy it at all.
Just because Judy is a parent now and has kids, doesn't make her a good one. She is still so bloody clueless to her children's needs. She has no idea what being a mother/parent actually is. She's selfish and lazy and puts in minimum work. Melody has more of a motherly instinct than Judy does (and I'm sure Judy is jealous of Melody's bond with Julianna one way or another.. like when Julianna rather hold onto Melody's hand than Judy's and Judy made the excuse Julianna rather hold onto a card
). Judy logic is best logic. #not
