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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby smudgedLipstick » Wed Sep 05, 2012 2:10 pm

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Zombie_Kitten wrote:I know it's probably really mean of me to say this, but I don't think she actually has anxiety issues. I think that if she deals with any mental affliction at all, it's borderline personality disorder or multiple personality disorder. I've dealt with anxiety for the majority of my life, and have been in and out of psychiatrists' and psychologists' offices for years. I've been around a LOT of anxietous people, and Bunny doesn't show the signs of having any type of anxiety in my opinion. She claims to have "major social anxiety", but she walks around in attention-grabbing, semi-slutty ensembles and does videos in public while yelling at the camera. I think she pretends to have anxiety as an excuse for not having a real job/real life, and also because all the hipster girls think it's cool to have mental disorders. ("I'm just so messed up and weird!") Sorry for the mini-rant, but I can't stand it when people fake having mental disorders. They're a very real problem for many people, and should never be thrown around lightly.


Is it possible to have just a slight anxiety? Because I think she is making the anxiety thing bigger than it actually is just to get more views. As a lot of people here said, it's cool amongst teenagers to be not normal as everyone else, to be weird and have some mental problems (of course, most of the time, they are just imagining and making up these problems).


I agree with you both. Rachel's sense of style and trends are tumblr based. Tumblr is full of posts related to mental illness and self harm, so of course she's going to see it and hook on to the "trend". She knows her fan base is full of people talking about it. Therefore, they can relate to Rachel in a way that they can't with others in their life if she says she has it as well. If she does have anxiety she uses it to her advantage and really has no wish to get professional help. Her use of "having a mini panic attack", "doctors told me I have 'high anxiety", and plenty other statements just make it all look self diagnosed and fake. I also do not agree with the swamp family trying to give eachother advice. Something can be said to trigger that person even further into depression or whatever they are going through. Supporting eachother is one thing. I'm all for people making friends online, but when you join this "family" and take their "advice" something is bound to go sour because they aren't qualified individuals.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Ms.NorthPole » Wed Sep 05, 2012 2:38 pm

Zombie_Kitten wrote:I know it's probably really mean of me to say this, but I don't think she actually has anxiety issues. I think that if she deals with any mental affliction at all, it's borderline personality disorder or multiple personality disorder. I've dealt with anxiety for the majority of my life, and have been in and out of psychiatrists' and psychologists' offices for years. I've been around a LOT of anxietous people, and Bunny doesn't show the signs of having any type of anxiety in my opinion. She claims to have "major social anxiety", but she walks around in attention-grabbing, semi-slutty ensembles and does videos in public while yelling at the camera. I think she pretends to have anxiety as an excuse for not having a real job/real life, and also because all the hipster girls think it's cool to have mental disorders. ("I'm just so messed up and weird!") Sorry for the mini-rant, but I can't stand it when people fake having mental disorders. They're a very real problem for many people, and should never be thrown around lightly.


To be fair,anxiety is extremely individual and may change from day to day. Though,I do agree with you on the account of her not having anxiety. Her claims that anxiety medications would alter her is wrong,though choosing to take them is a personal choice...but there are other ways of treating anxiety,like different techniques or anxiety-groups. Having the doctors diagnose your anxiety doesn't mean you'll be dumped into a psych ward and force-fed medications; it only means that you will have been asserted by professionals which in turn can help you in a medication-free way.

Also,I have to say this...Yes,Rabbit is just one person,but she really does wield a lot of power amongst her minions. She could just address the issue and tell her minions to not act that way. The minions hang on to every word she says,so they'll probably do it for the most part.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby amandajay » Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:03 pm

Zombie_Kitten wrote:I know it's probably really mean of me to say this, but I don't think she actually has anxiety issues. I think that if she deals with any mental affliction at all, it's borderline personality disorder or multiple personality disorder. I've dealt with anxiety for the majority of my life, and have been in and out of psychiatrists' and psychologists' offices for years. I've been around a LOT of anxietous people, and Bunny doesn't show the signs of having any type of anxiety in my opinion. She claims to have "major social anxiety", but she walks around in attention-grabbing, semi-slutty ensembles and does videos in public while yelling at the camera. I think she pretends to have anxiety as an excuse for not having a real job/real life, and also because all the hipster girls think it's cool to have mental disorders. ("I'm just so messed up and weird!") Sorry for the mini-rant, but I can't stand it when people fake having mental disorders. They're a very real problem for many people, and should never be thrown around lightly.


I completely agree. I've ha anxiety since the middle of 2007 (I actually think I've had it all my life but it never got severe until 07). I've been in and out of mental hospitals, I'm on medications, I've been to tons of psychiatrists and therapists for it and I hate it. It's definitely not something I bring up all the time because for me personally it is a bit embarrassing. I tell people that I have it when the subject comes about or if I can relate to someone and help with advice. In this case I am bringing it up because I've seen and known people with "severe social anxiety" and Bunny does not have it. Being nervous in public is regular anxiety that everyone has. But she doesn't show it at all when she's yelling and talking to herself in stores and her car. Plus she had a meet up at DISNEY WORLD. That place is huge! The people I've known with social anxiety avoid crowds and big places and strangers like the plague.
So it does seem like she uses it to be popular with hipsters and if infuriates me when people self diagnose themselves with something that they'd never EVER be able to deal with if they really had it.

End rant ha sorry.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby amandajay » Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:08 pm

DustyCrow wrote:So...the bunnykat vid, I watched it all but honestly swamp mom made me want to run head first into a wall. For one thing bunny is so fucking loud! It's been quite obvs before but you can really tell when she's with someone else.

I wonder how it'll be now that kat can't just hang up and is with her 24-7 lol, I would go insane.


Kat looked kind of uncomfortable. It seemed like she regretted it lol.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Rogue » Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:18 pm

You guys make an interesting point about the swamp family. Highly doubt that anyone in the swamp family is certified to deal with mental illness. But everyone keeps posting their uber-personal problems on the fb page, and asking for randoms to give them advice. I won't even go into the fact that it is hard to give good advice without a lot of background info... But it seems rather dangerous to have a bunch of on-edge teenagers spilling their life stories to eachother in an unmonitored forum.

This might be a bit harsh, but a lot of the kids on the fb page seem to be attention whoring. I mean everyone encounters mental illness at some point in their life. Whether it be a personal struggle, or if they have a friend/relative that is suffering. But not everyone goes on the internet and talks about how they tried to slice their wrist open last week...
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Truffalump » Wed Sep 05, 2012 4:38 pm

does anyone in her swamp family even know her real name? because in her old ask bunny video one of the top comments is about wishing she would just tell them her real name :? its pretty sad that she hasnt told them since they keep begging, its the least she could do, considering they send her loads of free junk and she gets money from their views.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby thelovelywar » Wed Sep 05, 2012 7:19 pm

Zombie_Kitten wrote:I know it's probably really mean of me to say this, but I don't think she actually has anxiety issues. I think that if she deals with any mental affliction at all, it's borderline personality disorder or multiple personality disorder. I've dealt with anxiety for the majority of my life, and have been in and out of psychiatrists' and psychologists' offices for years. I've been around a LOT of anxietous people, and Bunny doesn't show the signs of having any type of anxiety in my opinion. She claims to have "major social anxiety", but she walks around in attention-grabbing, semi-slutty ensembles and does videos in public while yelling at the camera. I think she pretends to have anxiety as an excuse for not having a real job/real life, and also because all the hipster girls think it's cool to have mental disorders. ("I'm just so messed up and weird!") Sorry for the mini-rant, but I can't stand it when people fake having mental disorders. They're a very real problem for many people, and should never be thrown around lightly.


i do believe recently she has been saying "i dont have SOCIAL anxiety" like she randomly says it if she mentions going out to the mall (i believe she said it in her mac haul??) and it's always around the time that we are bringing up the anxiety issue that she says it. but she has posted videos about her high anxiety (i just dont feel like looking at them)
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby lunchbox » Wed Sep 05, 2012 8:53 pm

I'm not going so far as saying she doesn't suffer from anxiety, because I don't know her personally, and I don't like to accuse people of faking something as serious as this (I'm not saying people don't do it, but I prefer to give them the benefit of the doubt), but it does seem this anxiety thing has become convenient for her. I'm also bothered with how she once said she went to a doctor and he prescribed her some medication, but warned her that it would "change her personality". If this is true, that is one shitty doctor! Obviously changes will occur, but it's not like you stop being who you are, and doctors shouldn't be discouraging their patients like this. I once saw some guy from some band (can't remember which, sorry) saying he was against medication because it takes away what makes you who you are (or something like that), as if mental illnesses were just some sort of quirk, and I thought that was a terrible message to send to his fans. And I don't like the message Bunny is sending to her viewers either, I think she makes her anxiety seem more like a quirk rather than something she actually struggles with, and while youtube and swamp families alone may work for her, they probably won't for most people. I'm not saying people should blindly take medication, but they shouldn't be discouraged to seek actual treatment if they need it!
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby BananaBread » Wed Sep 05, 2012 11:58 pm

I totally agree with you girls. I think that the only answer they should give on the swamp cult FB page is to go and visit a certified and professional specialist. Yes, you can talk about the anxiety AFTER you received help from doctor, because I know that it is easier to deal with it, if you have someone to talk to who had similar problem. But in my opinion, it is so wrong to give a medical advice about serious problem like anxiety.
I'm sorry for any grammar mistakes, English is my second language.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby SassyChance » Thu Sep 06, 2012 1:41 am

furphy wrote:Perhaps she's a bit scared of the rude 13 year olds? I think she would at least care, because of her self diagnosed anixiety issues. I bet she thinks that if she stands up to them, they'll turn on her and she'll loose her fan base?


Quite possibly. I think 100% that if she didn't have this 'swamp family' mess, I think she would feel she wouldn't have anything. It kinda (in my opinion) gave her some sort of entitlement. But to me, it's just disgusting how they act. So at this point I think because they do stand up to her constantly, she doesn't say a word & simply just deletes comments she doesn't like. She can't fight her own battles, and at this point I don't think she wants to. Why do the dirty work when you have idiotic 13 or 14 year olds that will do the dirty work for you? While you still look like the innocent 'swamp mother'?

Gosh she just makes me sick anymore. I'm so glad she can't delete the comments on here.
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby ShesAWolf » Thu Sep 06, 2012 2:55 am

Don't you just love the look on Kats face throughout the entire video? :grrrr:
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby hay guise » Thu Sep 06, 2012 3:10 am

Haha yes! She's like "going to be a long day". Bunny is way over amped.

Watching that vid reminds me of myself and a friend. She's funny to talk to on the phone or Internet, but once we are together I want to run away & I just sit there like kat.

Oh! And a swamp baby posted "I hate how kat interrupts bunny so much and won't let bunny finish"
haha what?!
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Zealous Lace » Thu Sep 06, 2012 3:11 am

So saw this when I opened up YT- poor Kat :( If I watch it, I'll only be out of sympathy for her!!
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Bonki » Thu Sep 06, 2012 3:42 am

Oh my gawd, Kat looks so bored, it's really hard to watch... Did they have a fight before the video, because its really awkward to watch or maybe something is building up...the video is really really awkward :?
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Michi » Thu Sep 06, 2012 4:35 am

How do we know that Bunny is living with her parents?
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Zealous Lace » Thu Sep 06, 2012 4:37 am

Michi wrote:How do we know that Bunny is living with her parents?

If you listen really, really carefully amidst Bunny's yelling, you can hear her poor parents bashing their heads against the wall ;)
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Michi » Thu Sep 06, 2012 4:49 am

Naps wrote:Casey Couture strikes again. :lol:



This reminds me of Kailyn, not Bunny.. oO
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Michi » Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:04 am

Zealous Lace wrote:
Michi wrote:How do we know that Bunny is living with her parents?

If you listen really, really carefully amidst Bunny's yelling, you can hear her poor parents bashing their heads against the wall ;)


Haha, aaw. ;)... but seriously..
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Clover la BonBon » Thu Sep 06, 2012 6:35 am

Why oh why Kat!? It makes no sense all this Bunny and Kat! It is like Bunny has dragged her there, through a Chick-fil-a and dumped her at the side :?

@Zealous Lace: Have you changed your avatar? I used to love the little flickky ears gif! aha :lol:
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby KimiSoYeah » Thu Sep 06, 2012 6:38 am

ShesAWolf wrote:Don't you just love the look on Kats face throughout the entire video? :grrrr:
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I just started watching this vid and immediately noticed how bummed out she looks!
She wants to go home so badly!!!
"I wanna go home... why won't they let me go home... this is the worst trip I've ever been on."
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Zealous Lace » Thu Sep 06, 2012 6:45 am

Clover la BonBon wrote:@Zealous Lace: Have you changed your avatar? I used to love the little flickky ears gif! aha :lol:

Haha yup I did, but I changed it back just for you :)
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby Clover la BonBon » Thu Sep 06, 2012 7:31 am

aww you shouldn't have :lol: !! I spend way too long looking at it! <3
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby hollaatmegurl » Thu Sep 06, 2012 8:07 am

Yelling.
Screaming
"YAYUS!".

All
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby lethargicgirl » Thu Sep 06, 2012 8:41 am

Michi wrote:
Zealous Lace wrote:
Michi wrote:How do we know that Bunny is living with her parents?

If you listen really, really carefully amidst Bunny's yelling, you can hear her poor parents bashing their heads against the wall ;)


Haha, aaw. ;)... but seriously..


i remember on the old forums someone talked about this... she does in fact live with mom and dad. for a little while when she was in college she lived with a friend but moved back to her parents before she graduated, where she has lived ever since. i mean youtube money doesn't buys lake houses! :roll:
i do wonder about what her parents think about her choice in "career" or what they do about all the early morning yelling? maybe they cant hear very well? maybe she is just an over indulged womanchild that yells in the basement ? maybe they believe special snowflake syndrome is a real medical ailment ?
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Re: General Thread:Grav3yardGirl Part 1

Postby AN0N. » Thu Sep 06, 2012 8:44 am

I just would like Bunny to get her eyebrows waxed, and nicely shaped.

It would make her face look so much better...
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